How Do I Know if I'm Dating The Right Person
"Am I with the right person?" This question implies you have second thoughts. Surely you prefer to have a definite answer without a doubt, that your partner is "the one and only". Unfortunately, there isn't a green light shining over your partner's head when you first meet him or her, prompting you to build the relationship. But since life and relationships have never been so easy, doubts will arise. It is normal for couples in long term relationships to experience reservations at some point.
It's Easy To Be Around Them
One of the most important feelings you should look for when assessing whether he or she is the right match for you, is comfort. If you're comfortable with this person - you're not often agitated, alert, waiting for an argument, or feeling neglected - that's a good sign.
That's not to say you won't have the occasional argument or moment of tension. It just means that the overall vibe feels relaxed and natural. (guardian.ng/)
You Stay In The Same "Group" While Arguing
Relationships tend to break down when partners view each other as enemies during fights, instead of finding ways to stay on the same team, even when they're both very angry. If you and your partner are the perfect match, you'll find that you can work through conflicts, voice your concerns, listen, and come to a resolution.
You argue, but never become vicious. And more importantly, you always come out on the other side with new limits and a better understanding of each other.
Does He treat you well?
Is he kind and caring? Is he always supporting you? Does he want what's best for you in the long term? Even if it may make him uncomfortable in the short term? These are a lot of questions but they all stem from "is he treating you well?" It's very important. You deserve a good, loving partner.
Good Communication
Communicating openly and honestly Good communication is an essential part of any relationship. When a human couple knows what they want from a relationship, and is comfortable expressing their needs, fears, and desires, it can increase trust and strengthen the bond between the two of you.
Do you think you can change this person?
When someone reveals who they are, believe in them. You cannot change a person. The person you're dating has to be right for you, what they are or not for you. Do you want the person you are dating to have a hidden agenda to turn you into someone you are not? It won't end well.
Does Your relationship require too much work?
A good relationship takes effort and energy and attention. It needs to be a priority, but it shouldn't be a hard job. This shouldn't be a struggle. If yes, the person is wrong for you. So many teenage relationships are broken and made up. There's so much drama It's too much work. He's not the right person for you.
Have you ever been embarrassed by the person you were dating?
If so, then he isn't right for you. Are you ashamed of the way they treat the waiters? Are you shy about inappropriate jokes? Are you shy when they drink too much? Are you ashamed of the way they talk about themselves or other people? Then he isn't the right person for you. Be honest with yourself. There are so many times that you ignore your hunches because you don't want something to come true. Believe in your instincts.
Summary
Are you single and in search of love? Are you finding it difficult to meet the right people? When you're having a hard time finding a loving relationship, it's all too easy to get discouraged or believe in the destructive myths out there about dating and relationships.
For many of you, your emotional baggage can make finding the right romantic partner a tough journey. Perhaps you grew up in a household where there were no role models for healthy relationships, and you doubted that such a thing existed in this world.
Your dating history is made up of only brief dates and you don't know how to make a relationship that lasts. You could be attracted to the wrong types of people, or keep making the same bad choices over and over, because of unresolved issues from your past.
So no matter what the problem, you can get rid your obstacles. Even if you've been on fire repeatedly or have a bad track record when it comes to dating, the tips above can help you judge whether you've met the right person.
